Childhood

In childhood, friendships are often based on the sharing of toys, and the enjoyment received from performing activities together. These friendships are maintained through affection, sharing, and creative playtime. While sharing is difficult for children at this age, they are more likely to share with someone they consider to be a friend (Newman & Newman, 2012). As children mature, they become less individualized and more aware of others. They begin to see their friends' points of view, and enjoy playing in groups. They also experience peer rejection as they move through the middle childhood years. Establishing good friendships at a young age helps a child to be better acclimated in society later on in their life (Newman & Newman, 2012).

In a 1974 study, Bigelow and La Gaipa found that expectations for a "best friend" become increasingly complex as a child gets older. The study investigated such criteria in a sample of 480 children between the ages of six and fourteen. Their findings highlighted three stages of development in friendship expectations. In the first stage, children emphasized shared activities and the importance of geographical closeness. In the second, they emphasized sharing, loyalty and commitment. In the final stage, they increasingly desired similar attitudes, values and interests.

According to Berndt, children prize friendships that are high in prosocial behavior, intimacy, and other positive features; they are troubled by friendships that are high in conflict, dominance, rivalry, and other negative features. High-quality friendships have often been assumed to have positive effects on many aspects of children's social development. Perceived benefits from such friendships include enhanced social success, but they apparently do not include an effect on children's general self-esteem. Numerous studies with adults suggest that friendships and other supportive relationships do enhance self-esteem (Berndt, 2002)

When I'm with you, hours feel like seconds. When we're apart, days feel like years.

When I'm with you, hours feel like seconds. When we're apart, days feel like years.

When I'm quiet: 

1) tired

 2) don't have anything to talk about 

3) over-thinking 

 4) upset 

 5) falling apart 

6) all of the above

I hate being jealous when I know I shouldn’t be.

Don't feel sad over someone who gave up on you, feel sorry for them because they gave up on someone who would have never given up on them.

My best friend's problems are my problems.

Ada yang pernah ngomong ke gue "Tidak semua perasaan harus dilisankan. Bila belum siap hanya jadi salah, bila tepat masa hanya bikin gundah" katanya sih dia dapet kalimat itu dari ustad tapi kok rasanya dewasa banget yaa orang yang nyampein omongan ini ke gue hehe

Kok berasa world udah bener bener different banget yaa, it's such a sun not shine the world, such water&&fire. but i wish and i really hope, even the world changed, but you never change

Abstract

Hello blogies, here i just want to make a new short story about my life, my journey, and my art. i don't know sure about my feel but sure now it  seems really abstract nothing colour in my mind, black and white, dark, black, and the worst things! i want go out to another country to earn a lot of money to change my mood, change everyting that i wanna change. but oh god i think it's too late, its like a rice already going to poridge. ohh goddddddddddddd what i should do? i'm just an ordinary girl who really jealous with every people who has a destiny better than me :')

cantik cantik banget yaaa, yaa minimal aku juga mau cantik kaya begini. Mungkin minimal didalam mimpi yaa blogies hehehe

I believe, even world change, even sun not shine the world, even stars stop lighting the darkness, i still believe that i'm not wrong to choose them as my friendship<33

And nowwww, aku pengen banget bahas tentang cowok didunia ini. ohyaa buat siapapun yang baca blog ini gue harap kalian sependapat yaa sama beberapa statement gue ini. Cowo itu variatif mulai dari cowo ganteng, cowo cool, cowo baik, cowo alim, cowo keren, cowo norak, cowo tukang maini perasaan orang! cowo sabar, cowo setia, dann masih banyak lagi.

Yah namanya cowo kali yaa ngerasa udah kuat ngerasa udah hebat seenaknya aja nangisin anak orang hehehehe. cowo ganteng mah relatif! kaka gue aja ganteng tapi gue ga naksir sama dia. cowo cool? barusan gue ketemu cowo cool di salah satu toko belanja tapiii.......ga naksir kok hmmm. cowo baik? yahhh temen disekolahan gue baik baik apalagi sahabat gue tapi gue juga ga naksir. cowo alim? kalo yang satu ini gabisa ditolak emang idaman semua cewe tapi jarang banget nemuin cowo yang beginian hehehe dipasar juga mana ada paling 0,000000000000001% baru bisa nemuin. cowo keren? tadiii tadiii gue ketemu sama cowo kerennn!!! kerennya badai tapi yaah namanya badai kan pasti berlaluuuu yakan bloggies? xoxoxoxo. cowo norak? ADA KOK ADA! Cowo tukang mainin perasaan orang? A.............da! ADA BANGET!!!!! tapi dari sekian ribu ragamnya cowo, yaa cewe cuma bisa setia sama satu cowo yang dia anggep bener bener tepat buat dia. yang selalu ada buat diaa, ya termasuk gue. gue juga cewe biasa walaupun 99,999% dipenuhi dengan kekurangan juga punya kok cowo idamanan, cowo yang bener bener bikin nyaman dan baikkkk hehehe